freyakitten

The Octopus is fine... beginner guys can normally lead it adequately in their first lesson and since it's almost totally passive, even ladies who've never seen it don't have any problems with it. The only real geometric constraint is that both have to be able to reach with one arm to above the other's head at different times. If that's a problem, then stepping close to the man's back to reduce the angle at the apex is the way to ease it. Now you just have to not be a DD cup.